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We know the world is doomed.
We know that life is cursed.
If you berate the hand of fate,
you'll only make things worse.

Know your limitations.
Formulate a better plan.
Modify your aspirations.
Be a happier man.

- Bertol.t Bre.cht, The Thr.eepenny Ope.ra

Saturday, August 07, 2004

y'all all look the same

Whilst in New Orleeens, I had to find a place to fix my glasses (one of the nose pads broke), so I walked Canal for a bit (just looking for the Walgreens) and happed upon a little optometrist's shop.

In I went.

And while I rarely feel the need to point out a person's race unless absolutely necessary, I must tell you that the woman behind the counter was black. (In this case, it's absolutely necessary that you know this). So were the other two men in the store. One man was a cop; the other, just a man (a black man! *gasp!*)

There I sat while the woman at the counter fixed my glasses. The other two men carried on with their intense intellectual discussion of the N.O. school board, the Baptist church that only cares for the members that tithe the most, and the dumb-ass parents all the kids have these days (the cop fella did an impeccable impression of Bernie Mac; I'm not just saying that because he's black, but I'm sure that contributed to his imitation abilities).

Deep into this conversation, which I am watching passively like a ping pong match, the non-cop turns to me as says: "Man, you from around here?"

"No. I'm from Massachusetts."

"Massachusetts!" (to the cop) "Man he don't need to hear about our dirty laundry down here."

The cop differed: "Nah, he's alright." (to me) "You agreeing with me, aren't you?"

I honestly nodded yes.

"Hrmmp," said the non-cop.

When it came time to pay, the woman said: "We don't take charge cards. You'll have to go to the ATM around the corner."

I went (blindly) to the ATM. About 3 or 4 minutes later I get back, cash in hand. The cop was gone (likely getting his eyes examined by now). Just the woman and the non-cop remained, chatting quietly at the counter.

As I entered, the non-cop did a double-take at me, then turned to the woman and asked: "Was that the guy who was just in here."

Both the woman and I said "Yes."

He says to me: "Man, y'all all look the same."

A fat, Pinteresque pause. The woman's facial muscles gave in and her jaw swung open like a loose loop of rope. ("You so wrong," I think I heard her mutter nearly without breath.)

As soon as I got my feet back under me, I inquired: "People from Massachusetts look alike?"

He laughed. "Yeah! All you Northern people look the same."

The woman said to me: "Don't listen to him. He's just rude."

His rebuttal: "C'mon. I bet when you first walked in you thought all us black folk in here looked the same."

As I put on my glasses and headed out, I pointed to the woman and said: "Yeah, but I can tell you apart because at least she's good lookin."

Monday, August 02, 2004

back from the big easy

I've actually been back for about a week, but with my job at JP winding down, I've been hella busy (does the use of "hella" earn me negative hipster points?).

The number one attraction on Bourbon Street was a man dressed as a handgrenade stripper-humping a black pole. Number two was the really excellent bloody mary I was drinking on the opposite porch with my fellow 6th grade teachers. Number three was Jason Varitek punching A-Rod in the face during the Yanks/Sox brawl a couple weeks ago. (I count that last one because I saw it on a TV in my New Orleans hotel room).

Most evenings saw me either in the hotel bar or in the Quarter. I tried not to spend too much money, but I couldn't stay for long in my room because my assigned roommate from Ohio felt it necessary to always talk about how much sex he has with his wife (who, by the by, is 27 years younger than he and more than happy to clean out said roommates navel). Plus, if I did not get to the TV first, I had to forego baseball, news, or cartoon network for Jerry Springer. Then get an inspirational speech about how I should go to the strip bars down Bourbon.

I'm very happy to home and not worrying about how this man is now a middle school teacher.